Wednesday, September 28, 2016

How you act with the stranger

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When you have a new student in your class
What say you?

A: 'Look our new victim arrived' *Bully time
B: 'She need sit beside me' *repair hair and change be good friend
C: 'I think she must luv kpop' *Kpopers instinct be friend.
D: 'Why she sit beside my crush?!! *Jealousy
E: 'Whatever' *Act like I'm care

Don't ask me.... ofc I'm 'E'. Haha!!!
Since i really don't know how to make a friend
I means to approach them at the first place
It hard man~ It hard!!! *sigh

Sombong
That is a what i get when someone don't know me react and judge like the know me
I used to get that nickname
And it was last long until that someone who does rate me before finally get to known me
Itulah pandai-pandai je judge aku *geram tiba-tiba
Well, as aku cakap tadi aku jenis yang tak pandai berkawan
Mostly aku berkawan dengan orang yang bertindak dahulu *make the first move gitu~
Who say 'Hi~' first...
Who say 'Lets be friend~' first...
Who say 'Don't worry, Don't cry~' first... *Mengaku. Aku memang budak cengeng

Alam persekolahan and workforce satu entiti yang berlainan
The feeling
The enjoyment
The people
But when it come to new - new student or new staff it goes back to the same cicle of my 'acquaintanceship mode'
Janggal or awkward situation
Even if I used to say Hi! but it will stuck for next conversation
Apa nak cakap next? Nak tanya khabar ke? His or her name dia apa tadi. Alamak lupa...!!!?

There are so many stories to be told and write if related to my experience to encounter with the stranger or sebenarnya kawan or colleague
Too many...
But i do remember this one most since it happen to me and make me slap my face and say 'I should adjust a bit my behavior'
That happen during my activities during Uni
I had join Facilitator club and masa tu pertama kali turun padang bersama junior atau ahli baru
I'm second semester student and sedikit senior lah dibandingkan dengan new face *new fasilitator
As usual, sebelum mulakan aktiviti kami buat aktiviti kami sendiri
Ice breaking with all fasi
Kau pandang muka aku, aku pandang muka kau
Then senyum~ *Haha. Itu aku tipu

Ice breaking aktiviti ni memang wajib sebelum kami mula dibahagikan kumpulan dan partner masing-masing
Kenal hati budi semua in a way we are here together and we must support each other
As all responsibility terletak penuh atas bahu masing-masing selepas guru-guru atau organiser yang jemput dan handle the program menyerahkan slot aktiviti kepada pihak kami
Beban dia besar *sumpah
Sebab our club is not only become a fasilitator to student yang nak ambil peperiksaan atau pengawas je tetapi kadang-kadang kepada budak-budak hardcore yang sememangnya kepala batu dan bermasalah
Masalah pembelajaran dan social

Well, back to my story *Dah kelaut terpesongnya
Lepas dah perkenalkan nama dan sedikit background as student profile kami selalu akan buat support note or letter toward each other like
'to A, we hope we can be friend and let do our best for today'
'to B, Apa yang penting KERJASAMA~' *masa ni era cerita wonder pet treadmark
'to C, we meet again. Sebenarnya saya suka turun sekolah dengan awak'
'to D, Kau lagi... Btw selamat berkerjasama okay. Fighting'
'to E, Mula-mula sekali thanks sebab bagi roti tadi. Haha... Gud luck!!!'

It seem like secret admire note to each other
Wajib tulis dekat semua fasi yang join, if ada 20 orang fasi... 20 note or letter lah kau kena tulis
And eventually...
We don't really get to know who give the letter or the note belong to
No word 'yang benar' it is from A or whatsoever
Unless you already know their handwriting lah kan
That why some time I used to get really secret admire note instead. Haha *shuuuu that is secret and during that time i do spot who wrote that
It fun sometime~ *still keep those letter
And for me, I always wrote the same word of 'to A until bla bla, Salam perkenalan, Good Luck for today!!!' *Jahat kan...

After that, kami mulakan aktiviti as schedule *and sometimes it took 2 day 1 night program
Now story begin: when one of my junior fasi always come and talk to me when there are break slot
She was like 'Hai kak...'
'Akak dah makan? Nak saya ambilkan tak makanan'
'Akak okay?'
'Group akak macam mana? Happening tak. Group saya bla...bla...bla...'
Imma like, what wrong with her ni
I just act like I care but I actually not *You know if you are soo tired and need your own space but there are someone who always like to knock your door and share their tot bout everything
That was me that time

Finally the day end. The program end
One again we used to gather and do postmortem activities before we all jalan balik
After each of everyone bla...bla...bla... we conclude the day with applause *clap clap clap
Lepas tu salam laga-laga pipi sikit, termasuk with that girl
That girl yang cuba nak bercakap dengan aku tetapi aku selalu avoid her *Jahatnya aku masa tu

After a several days aku baca balik all notes masa program
And I spot one letter
'Hi kak. Ini kali pertama kita berkerjasama. Harap akak dan kita jadi rapat. Tolong guide and ajar kita ya'
Guess who wrote that *Yes. That girls





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